Friday, 27 November 2009

facebook

the more i gather friends,
in facebook,
the more lonely i feel..

how to

my first born is leaving for australia
coming february
how to handle this?
emotionally?

hadoi

i missed nur kasih last episod last nite
uwaaa...

mendung kelabu

a friend asked
hows the weather in kuala
and i said mendung n gelap
n its gonna rain heavily soon..

i asked my daughter
hows the weather in zagazig
is it also mendung,
she said tak ada maknanys,
the weather there cerah.

how is it that i missed her so much
and the weather seemed to agree with me

is it that she doesnt miss me n the family
i guess she did,
only that she is stronger n wiser
than her mom???

Sunday, 15 November 2009

WHEN BUYING LIPSTICKS

Something to consider
next time you go shopping for lipstick..... This comes from someone who works in the breast cancer unit at Mt. Sinai Hospital , inToronto From: Dr. Nahid Neman
If there is a female you care anything about, share this with her. I did!!!!! I am also sharing this with the males on my email list, because they need to tell the females THEY care about as well!
Recently a lipstick brand called "Red Earth" decreased their prices from $67 to $9.90.

It contained lead. Lead is a chemical which causes cancer. The lipstick brands that contain lead are: CHRISTIAN DIOR

LANCOME

CLINIQUE

Y.S.L

ESTEE LAUDER

SHISEIDO

RED EARTH (Lip Gloss)

CHANEL (Lip Conditioner)

MARKET AMERICA-MOTNES LIPSTICK.

The higher the lead content, the greater the chance of causing cancer.

After doing a test on lipsticks, it was found that the Y.S.L .. lipstickcontained the most amount of lead. Watch out for those lipstickswhich are supposed to stay longer. If your lipstick stays longer, it isbecause of the higher content of lead.

Here is the test you can do yourself:

1. Put some lipstick on your hand.

2. Use a Gold ring to scratch on the lipstick.

3. If the lipstick colour changes to black, then you know the lipstick contains lead.

PERINGATAN

SATU PERINGATAN!!KUBUR SETIAP HARI MENYERU MANUSIA SEBANYAKLIMA KALI;

1. Aku rumah yang terpencil,
Maka kamu akan senang dengan selalu membaca Al-Quran.

2. Aku rumah yang gelap,
Maka teranglah aku dengan selalu solat malam.

3. Aku rumah penuh dengan tanah dan debu,
Maka bawalah amal soleh yang menjadi hamparan.

4. Aku rumah ular berbisa,
Maka bawalah amalan Bismillah sebagai penawar.

5. Aku rumah pertanyaan Munkar dan Nakir,
Maka banyaklah bacaan "Laa ilaha illallah,
Muhammadur Rasulullah",
supaya kamu dapat jawapan kepadanya.


Lima Jenis Racun dan Lima Penawarnya;

1. Dunia itu racun,Zuhud itu ubatnya.

2. Harta itu racun,Zakat itu ubatnya.

3. Perkataan yang sia-sia itu racun,Zikir itu ubatnya.

4. Seluruh umur itu racun,Taat itu ubatnya.

5. Seluruh tahun itu racun,Ramadhan itu ubatnya.
MENGENAI WANITA & KUBUR

1. Doa perempuan lebih makbul daripada lelaki kerana sifat penyayang yang lebih kuat daripada lelaki. Ketika ditanya kepada Rasulullah akan hal tersebut, jawab baginda, "Ibu lebih penyayang daripada bapa dan doa orang yang penyayang tidak akan sia-sia".

2. Apabila seseorang perempuan mengandung janin dalam rahimnya, maka beristighfarlah para malaikat untuknya.Allah mencatatkan baginya setiap hari dengan 1,000 kebajikan dan menghapuskan darinya 1,000 kejahatan.

3. Apabila seseorang perempuan mulai sakit hendak bersalin, maka Allah mencatatkan baginya pahala orang yang berjihad pada jalan Allah.

4. Apabila seseorang perempuan melahirkan anak, keluarlah dia dari dosa-dosa seperti keadaan ibunya melahirkannya.

5. Apabila telah lahir anak lalu disusui, maka bagi ibu itu setiap satu tegukan daripada susunya diberi satu kebajikan.

6. Apabila semalaman ibu tidak tidur dan memelihara anaknya yang sakit, maka Allah memberinya pahala seperti memerdekakan 70 hamba dengan ikhlas untuk membela agama Allah.

7. Barangsiapa yang menggembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama orang yang sentiasa menangis kerana takutkan Allah dan orang yang takutkan Allah, akan diharamkan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.

8. Barangsiapa membawa hadiah, (barang makanan dari pasar ke rumah) lalu diberikan kepada keluarganya, maka pahalanya seperti bersedekah. Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan daripada anak lelaki. Maka, barangsiapa yang menyukakan anak perempuan seolah-olah dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail.

9. Tiap perempuan yang menolong suaminya dalam urusan agama, maka Allah memasukkan dia ke dalam syurga lebih dahulu daripadasuaminya (10,000 tahun).

10. Perempuan apabila sembahyang lima waktu, puasa bulan ramadhan,memelihara kehormatannya serta taat akan suaminya, masuklah dia dari pintu syurga mana sahaja yang dikehendaki.

11. Wanita yang solehah (baik) itu lebih baik daripada 1,000 lelaki yang soleh.

12. Aisyah berkata, "Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah, siapakah yang lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita? Jawab Rasulullah, "Suaminya. "Siapa pula berhak terhadap lelaki?" Jawab Rasulullah, "Ibunya".

13. Apabila memanggil akan engkau dua orang ibubapamu, maka jawablah panggilan ibumu dahulu.

14. Wanita yang taat akan suaminya, semua ikan-ikan di laut, burung diudara, malaikat di langit, matahari dan bulan semua beristighfar baginya selama mana dia taat kepada suaminya serta menjaga sembahyang dan puasanya.

15. Wanita yang taat berkhidmat kepada suaminya akan tertutup pintu-pintu neraka dan terbuka pintu-pintu syurga. Masuklah dari mana-mana pintu yang dia kehendaki dengan tidak dihisab.

16. Syurga itu di bawah tapak kaki ibu.

17. Wanita yang tinggal bersama anak-anaknya akan tinggal bersama aku (Nabi s.a.w) di dalam syurga.

18. Barangsiapa mempunyai tiga anak perempuan atau tiga saudara perempuan atau dua anak perempuan atau dua saudara perempuan lalu dia bersikap ihsan dalam pergaulan dengan mereka dan mendidik mereka dengan penuh rasa takwa serta bertanggungjawab, maka baginya syurga.

19. Daripada Aisyah r.a. Barangsiapa yang diuji dengan sesuatu daripada anak-anak perempuannya, lalu dia berbuat baik kepada mereka, maka mereka akan menjadi penghalang baginya daripada apineraka. "Jadi, janganlah sesekali kita merasa lemah. Wanitalah sebenarnya yang membuat seseorang lelaki itu kuat. Itulah salah satu sebab mengapa Nabi meletakkan wanita setaraf pada lelaki dan tidak lebih rendah.

POWER OF MONEY

Friends, make sure you read this story until the end
POWER OF MONEY By Adam Khoo - Singapore's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs. I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand and Suzhou(China). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books. Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelingeconomy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused. This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires').Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one. The truth is that most self-made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able toaccumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster. Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife and 2 kids, mother in law, 2 maids etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if! they are lucky). I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Orgn)a few years back (YEO is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self-made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m, travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs. I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really valuemoney. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation. Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business. Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last. Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life.. Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning ! so fast. What makes me happy is when I see mycompanies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries. What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired someone's life. What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel reallygood for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me. I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing, trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life ofmeaninglessness.

lima perkara yg kita mahukan

خمسة أشياء كلنا نريدها و نحاول الحصول عليها
lima perkara semua kita mahukannya dan kita usaha utk mendapatkannya
1- وجه جميل
wajah yang cantik

2- فلوس بالملاين
duit yang banyak

3- صحة قوية
kesihatan yang baik

4- اولاد شاطرين وفالحين مثلنا
anak2 yg cerdik dan berjaya macam kita

5- نوم عميق من دون مهدئات و أدوية
tidur yang nenyak tanpa ganguan
سهلة جدا و بوصفة سحرية و سهلة تستغرق 15 دقيقة يومياً ! كيف؟
senang jer untuk mendapatkannya hanya 15minit setiap hari. bagaimana?
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم :
kata من ترك صلاة الصبح فليس في وجهه نور و من ترك صلاة الظهر فليس في رزقه
siapa yang tinggalkan solat subuh tiadalah padanya nur di wajahnya dan siapa yang tinggalkan solat zohor tiadalah padanya rezki yang berkat
dan barang siapa yang tinggalkan solat asar tiadalah padanya kekuatan badan, dan siapa yang tinggalkan solat maghrib tiadalah padanya anak2 yg bermanfaat
أولاده ثمرة و من ترك صلاة العشاء فليس في نومه راحة
dan barangsiapa yang tinggalkan solat isyak tiadalah padanya tidur yang nyenyak
بلغ عن الرسول ( صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم ) ولو آية
sampaikanlah daripada nabi saw itu walaupun satu ayat

Saturday, 14 November 2009

chocolate cake - moist..tq to my bestfren

250g butter
200g gula
pukol sampai kembang
5 biji telor gred A masukkan satu, satu.
masukkan tepong naik sendiri 200g+KOKO 50g
air tiga suku cawan
susu pekat dua sudu beso
esen vanila 1 sudu kecik

bakar 180 celcius 50 - 55 min.

untuk topping cairkan coklat masakan
guna teknik double boiler
bila cair, campur susu segar
(ikut suka)
n tuangkan atas kek
sejukkan.

Thursday, 12 November 2009

bila pengetua baru,
takot le nak fly
or keluar pergi fotostat,
hal-hal penting pun tak berani nak buat

one fine day
i had migraine at school and i ran out of medicine
and..
it turned out to be a nightmare for me

a colleague had to work outside of school
i asked this person to buy for me
and..thats when the nightmare started.
fullstop.

a fren

a friend came to me today, saying that she is very very down
that someone had told her that someone else had been bad-mouthing her, and i told her, its ok..
dont worry bout bad people in our life.. these people are not worth even a second of thought in ur mind..dont waste ur time thinking bout them. these people are sick mentally and Allah is with us who are patient bout it.